From Loss to Light: My Journey to The MakeupyourPOWER Method

Astrology, Your Dharma & Awakening

Astrology became my compass through it all. My Sun, Moon, and Rising signs revealed the blueprint of my soul — the lessons (karma), the gifts(dharma), and the purpose(soul purpose) behind every experience.

Through my chart, I saw that my journey wasn’t random; it was written. Every loss, every rebirth, every transformation was guiding me toward embodying my true power.

That’s why The POWER Method was born — a synthesis of everything I’ve lived, learned, and healed. It’s the framework that helped me move from abandonment to empowerment, from pain to purpose, and from survival to soul alignment.

“Fairytales are real — they’re the stories we live when we choose to believe in our own magic.”

"Nichole did a reading for me at a birthday party. Her presence felt open and non-invasive. Her authentic personality immediately established trust. Her use of both astrology & tarot together gave us both beautiful insights. I shared a question about how a stressful but temporary situation would end. She pulled the ace of cups (best possible outcome). Within 2 weeks the issue resolved itself and it was even better that I hoped. I’m a fan of Nichole and highly recommend her services.”

-Karina Mirsky

Main Story

My father struggled with addiction, my mother passed away when I was young, and I learned early on that silence was the language of survival. I grew up in a world where emotions were hidden behind closed doors. My Godparents raised me and my sister. Very Italian Catholic family, we didn’t talk about what hurt, what happened at home, or how we truly felt.

But even as a child, I knew I was different. I felt connected to something bigger — the unseen world, the energy that moves through everything. While others focused on fitting in, I was always searching for meaning, for magic, for truth behind the veil.

School never made sense to me — I couldn’t understand why we were memorizing facts that didn’t feed the soul.

After high school became a licensed cosmetologist with makeup certifications.

At 19, I left home and moved to Michigan with nothing but a car, bed, clothes and $500. What an adolescent I was.

I believed in people, in possibility, in fairytales that felt more real than the world around me.

I wanted everyone to know they could do anything, that hope was real, that magic existed — even when life didn’t reflect it back to me.

In my early twenties, I became a mother. My first son arrived when I was 22 years old. It was the first time I truly understood unconditional love.

We had our second child 4 years after. He came a couple of months earlier than planned.

June 27, 2011

I still remember lying in that hospital bed, blood pressure soaring, being asked who should be saved if it came down to me or my baby. Without hesitation, I said, “My son.”

My son Urijah was born prematurely. His early arrival was the result of poor nutrition, high stress, and the overuse of prescription medications. At that time in my life, I believed that having children was what I was supposed to be doing. I was a young mother, still trying to figure out who I was, raising a second child while emotionally still a child myself.

That season of my life taught me how deeply our environments, choices, and unhealed parts of ourselves can shape our experiences. It was the beginning of my awakening — realizing that motherhood, while beautiful, couldn’t fill the spaces within me that needed healing and growth.

That moment changed me forever. It was the power of surrender. Today, my boys are 18 and 14 — my greatest teachers.

A Turning Point in My Journey

In the years that followed my son’s birth, my relationship continued to deteriorate. By the time I was 29, I reached a moment that would forever change the direction of my life. Desperate for answers I seeked advise from a psychic, certainly unsure of the truths during my first experience, I connected with my mother, who had passed away years earlier. She revealed to me that I would one day meet my Twin Flame — the person who would truly align with my soul — and that my current husband, while my soulmate, was not the one who would bring me lasting fulfillment.

She told me it was time to release everyone from my past except my father, to forgive, and to let go. I felt she advised that I allow myself to have the relationship with my father as long as it brought me peace and to forgive myself and allow myself time to heal. Releasing anyone from my life that didn’t match my energy or respect it. That day held deep meaning — I was the same age my mother had been when she passed, and I visited on the same date, May 22.

When I returned home, I shared everything with my husband. By November, just after I turned 30, we separated. Six days later, our paths began to unfold exactly as I had been told — he met the woman he is now married to, and in time, I met the man who would become my husband.

The story of how we found each other is one for another time, but what followed was a period of deep transformation. After my divorce, I entered a relationship that reflected the wounded, teenage part of myself — the part still afraid to be alone. That experience, though painful, was necessary. It was the bridge that led me to my true partner and, ultimately, to myself.

There was a time when I lost everything — even my home. But in that space of rock bottom, I found the foundation for my healing. Every experience, every heartbreak, and every lesson became the blueprint for what I now call The Power Method — a journey of self-discovery, forgiveness, and reclaiming inner strength.

I was beginning to listen to energy, to signs, to synchronicities. I began studying astrology, intuition, and the language of the soul. I realized now how every challenge was an initiation, every heartbreak a portal to a deeper truth.

Over the next decade, I rebuilt my life from the inside out. I faced addictions, healed childhood trauma, emotional wounds and transformed my body — from 300 pounds to 123 pounds — not through perfection, but through presence. I became sober, a vegetarian, and devoted to living more consciously.

I earned my bachelor’s and master’s degrees and currently enrolled in graduate school for mental health counseling — merging spirituality with psychology to help other find their own path to empowerment.

"Nichole did an awesome job with my reading and helping me understand my life’s mission.

I love her energy and enthusiasm to help me along the way.

Highly Recommend!!!”

-ICRAL222

"WOW! Nichole made my best friends' birthday celebration such a special time. I highly recommend booking her for your next event. Every guest got focused 1 : 1 time and felt so cared for. My own reading was a RIOT! I love Nichole's intuitive style and authentic approach. She brings the personality, depth, and connection you really want to have in a reading."

-Steena Marie

MakeUpYourPower — The Birth of a Movement

In January 2020, while still working at Great Clips and Simply Stunning Bridal, I launched MakeUpYourPower Makeup & Tarot. Working in corporate America felt like a form of slave labor —it wasn’t about artistry or connection, but about how fast you could make the company money and not complain. I was burning out, saying yes to everything, trying to please everyone, and losing myself in the process.

I worked for a bridal company and Mary Kay at the time, which became a beautiful training ground for empowerment and women’s leadership. I learned from so many incredible mentors — what worked for me, what didn’t, who aligned and who didn’t.

Even as success started to bloom, I was still chasing external validation, still living in a shame cycle, still seeking approval for who I was.

I was really on a journey to finding myself. August of 2021, I had Bariatric Surgery. I was 275 pounds at the time. This is where, the problem & drinking came to the surface.

Along came May 22, 2022 — thirty years to the day of my mother’s passing — the day I married my Twinflame at 2:22 pm. Everything about it was divine, intentional, and spiritual. Yet even in that magic, I was still fighting inner demons — the habits the world calls “normal” but that numb the soul: drinking, over consumption, overworking, pretending everything is fine. Weight was coming off. (on the outside) However the weight inside was beginning to rise.

In 2023, my husband and I traveled to Arizona during a supermoon. That trip shifted everything. We didn’t drink, we felt clear, connected, and alive. But later that summer, on a cruise, we slipped back into old patterns __ heavy drinking, arguments, chaos. When we returned home, my cousin — who I was raised with — died of a heroin overdose.

That loss shook me to my core. I realized it could have been me if I kept making unhealthy choices. Something awakened inside me. I became a vegetarian that October, opened my first MakeupYourPower Studio in the Kalamazoo Arts Building on my birthday, and by January 2024, we quit drinking completely.

In February 2024, I hit a breaking point — a moment where I faced the choice to end my life or finally ask for help. I chose life. I chose healing. I started therapy, faced my shadows, and began doing the real INNER work.

That’s when The POWER Method was born.

It came from the realization that all the empowerment I was teaching others on the outside meant nothing if I wasn’t living it on the inside. I learned that healing is power, that freedom is a choice, and that wealth isn’t measured in money — it’s the sanctuary we build within ourselves.

"Nichole was spot on with the readings and allowed space for me to connect on a deeper understanding of who I am, where I am, where I am journeying, and my ancestral connection. Completely in the realm of synchronicity in meeting her.”

-Corey Dean

"Nichole was great!!! I really liked the birth chart as it helped me understand who I am as a person. She connected with past and future events and really opened my eyes to not only my own abilities but to the world around me.”

-Brian Snyder

From Survival to Soul

Alignment

You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, gone to therapy, and tried to fix yourself — yet something inside still whispers, there’s more.

You’ve been the strong one, the caretaker, the peacemaker. You’ve held it all together for everyone else while quietly wondering when it would finally be your turn to feel free, seen, and fulfilled.

I know that feeling — because I lived it.

For years, I was chasing validation, saying yes to everything, trying to be the light for everyone else while drowning in my own shadows. I was living in survival mode, confusing productivity for purpose, and mistaking external success for inner peace.

But the truth is: healing isn’t about doing more.

It’s about becoming more of who you already are.

When I stopped running from my pain and started listening to it, I discovered that every wound carried wisdom. Every breakdown was an initiation. Every shadow held a piece of my light.

That’s what The POWER Method is built on — the understanding that transformation doesn’t happen when you escape your story, but when you finally embrace it.

The Shift That Changes Everything

When you begin to see your patterns, your triggers, your fears — not as flaws, but as invitations — you reclaim your power.

You stop asking,

“Why is this happening to me?'‘

and start realizing, “This is happening for me.”

That’s the moment your life begins to shift.

You start making decisions from intuition instead of fear.

You start honoring your energy instead of overextending it.

You start creating from alignment instead of obligation.

I had such a lovely experience meeting and talking with Nichole. She offered some really interesting insights and shared my birth chart with me, which is such a deep dive into various aspects of my personality. She also gave me some suggestions as to things I can do moving forward. 100% recommend!”

-Nichole Lee

"I had a great reading with Nichole. She had a lot of insights and information that I needed to hear. I have watched the replay at least once and I plan on doing it several times more. It was very helpful for my spirituality at a time when I really needed it. I will DEFINITLEY be contacting her again.”

-Janet Minich

"Nichole has a TRUE gift, and I am grateful to have come across her site.”

“I believe I was meant to find her.”

“Out of all the experiences I had planned for my girl’s trip, this by far was our favorite moment”

-Amanda

“Your pain was never meant to break you — it was meant to awaken you.”

"My reading with Nichole was lovely. I’d always been curious about meeting with a psychic medium, and she did not disappoint. I left with feeling more content with my life’s path and ability to make it beautiful.”

-Audrey Schulz

"This opportunity was an absolute joy to experience! The love and peace that you will feel in the atmosphere crafted to include walks of all lives, religions, struggles and strife’s. Nichole makes you feel comfortable and peaceful all while being supportive and honest. As a Christian… the idea of speaking or investigating the spiritual is frowned upon, however I believe this to be a misplaced stigma.. I left feeling radiant and I would recommend ANYONE to come and explore your questions, feelings, and spiritual desires. Thank you Nichole for hearing me… 10 stars 50/10”

-Wolfpak

“I had my first reading with Nichole and it was a beautiful experience. Nichole is soothing and spiritual and genuinely wants to share every message with you. It’s very important to her that’s she guides you and gives you all information within her ability that is asked for. I will definitely have future readings with Nichole and look forward to working with her again.”

-Liza May

"When I set my appointment with Nichole, I was feeling pulled in all different directions. In just one hour, she changed my perspective on several things that I have been worried about. She exudes positivity and is always uplifting. I had a wonderful session and would do it again in a heartbeat!”

-Erica Riegle

"I absolutely love working with Nichole! Not only is she a great makeup artist she is also in tune with the universe. I left confident, loved, and accepted. Of course after several breaks for crying. Blessed to have her apart of my soul tribe.”

-Tai Stewart

The Desire That Drives You

Deep down, you know you’re here for more. You can feel it — that pull toward purpose, that desire to live a life that feels like you.

You crave peace, clarity, and confidence. You want to wake up feeling connected — to your body, your spirit, your truth.

You want to trust your intuition, speak your truth without fear, and feel proud of the person you’ve become.

That’s not a fantasy.

That’s your soul calling you home.

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